Yesterday, Mary was able to pretty much prune trees herself. She has spent several years helping me prune trees. I tried to teach her as we went and then give her ever increasing responsibility for doing it herself. I have done that with many tasks. Some I have been better at than others. My daughter will be leaving home for college in the fall. She is very passionate about the environment and sustainable living. I hope that I have helped her with some of that.
My parents sent me off with many skills. We always had a large garden from which we canned and preserved many items. I never ate a store bought vegetable or pretty much a fruit until I went to college. Most of our meat and eggs came from my aunts and uncles farms. Boy, I was in for a shock when I started eating all store bought food. It took me a long time to adjust to eating it. I am very appreciative of the skills my parents shared with me along the way. They have come in very handy as an adult. The best part is I can still and do call them for advise on various topics.
Teaching our children basic skills will help them in the future. Even if they chose not to go along the same path as us with sustainable living. They will have the skills to come back to if they chose it in the future. Teaching children means actually letting go of tasks and having them do them. Teaching also involves sharing your knowledge; not just setting loose and saying do it. Working alongside of you from a young age is so important. Even though it takes extra time at first, it will pay off in the end.
Take some time today and look at how you interact with your children. Do you expect everything to be done perfectly so you take over tasks and do it for them? Do you just tell them to do something without providing instruction setting them up for failure or frustration? Do you spend time working along with your children? Passing on skills and beliefs to the next generation is just as important as doing them yourself. Spend time working alongside your children. Expect them to help with daily chores and responsibilities. This will help them to become consciences and capable adults.
My parents sent me off with many skills. We always had a large garden from which we canned and preserved many items. I never ate a store bought vegetable or pretty much a fruit until I went to college. Most of our meat and eggs came from my aunts and uncles farms. Boy, I was in for a shock when I started eating all store bought food. It took me a long time to adjust to eating it. I am very appreciative of the skills my parents shared with me along the way. They have come in very handy as an adult. The best part is I can still and do call them for advise on various topics.
Teaching our children basic skills will help them in the future. Even if they chose not to go along the same path as us with sustainable living. They will have the skills to come back to if they chose it in the future. Teaching children means actually letting go of tasks and having them do them. Teaching also involves sharing your knowledge; not just setting loose and saying do it. Working alongside of you from a young age is so important. Even though it takes extra time at first, it will pay off in the end.
Take some time today and look at how you interact with your children. Do you expect everything to be done perfectly so you take over tasks and do it for them? Do you just tell them to do something without providing instruction setting them up for failure or frustration? Do you spend time working along with your children? Passing on skills and beliefs to the next generation is just as important as doing them yourself. Spend time working alongside your children. Expect them to help with daily chores and responsibilities. This will help them to become consciences and capable adults.