This weekend my oldest daughter graduates from home school high school. When we embarked on this journey, we were going to try home schooling for a year because our school system had all day kindergarten and our daughter, Mary, at the time was still taking a 2-3 hour nap in the afternoon. We floundered our way through the first year and started finding some home school friends and groups. We enrolled her in way too many extracurricular activities to make sure she developed "social skills". By the end of Kindergarten, Mary had taught herself to read. Our parents and friends still worried if she would be social enough and if she learning what she was supposed to be learning.
The next year we decided to continue home schooling Mary. We started a home school co-op where I taught elementary science on a trial basis. That year we decreased some of the extracurricular activities because we realized she was getting plenty of social time. She started reading chapter books and did well in all her subjects. Math, though seemed to be hard for her. We found that this lifestyle fit our family well. We turned our vacations into educational field trips. We discovered as most home school families do that schooling our child reached way beyond our school time. We incorporated math, science and other subjects into our everyday routines as well because we knew what they were working on each day in school .
We kept saying we would put Mary back into school during middle school. Then, Out of the Zone, classes came into our lives. When high school decision making time came, NHA found us. It is a small co-op of mothers who worked together to educate their high school children. We decided to give high school a try. We then found out about dual credit through our local community college. We found a small private college that let seniors take one free course a semester their senior year. We learned together about testing and getting into college. Then this year, the senior year arrived. Good news kept coming. Three of the six students, including Mary, received full scholarships to universities. Most of the others received some kind of merit scholarship. They all had developed deep relationships with their friends. They continued their very active home school social lives.
I tell you a brief history of our home school journey not to brag or say this is the best way to educate your child. That is up to each individual family because they know their children and family structure best. I tell you this that if you are considering home schooling, give it a try. Find a local support group or co-op. You do not need to commit for your child's whole school career. Tell yourself you will try it and see where it takes you.
Mary graduates in a local home school graduation ceremony on Saturday morning. There will be 54 participants in this years program. We will meet our daughter with pride in the center of the stage to present her with her diploma from our school. She is a well rounded young lady with a good head on her shoulder. She has many dear friends and a very active social life. During her home school high school career, she has attended basketball and soccer games, participated in musicals, gone to prom and the Christmas dance. She does not feel like she has missed anything by not being in a more "traditional" school setting like many of her friends. She will attend Morehead State University this fall on a full scholarship that covers everything. I feel home schooling her was a good decision.